We鈥檝e seen a lot of death, pain, suffering, and evil in our world during the last few years, so today I want to address a few questions having to do with evil, pain and suffering鈥 questions that, I believe, all 鈥榯hinking鈥 people ask.
Over the last three months I鈥檝e described a 鈥渞ight-handed鈥 model for thinking about what we do in Christian education. It pulls together five 鈥渞ight鈥 aspects of what we need to focus on in our teaching: right relationship, right knowledge, right passion or heart, right will, and right actions. For the next few months I want to explore and unpack a 鈥渃oaching鈥 pedagogy that helps promote real growth, not just increased knowledge. Let me start with a verse from one of my favorite Psalms and a story.
Is your church similar to a family holiday celebration? The table is set, the decorations adorn the room, all ages are gathered together鈥 but sitting at different tables. The 鈥渁dult鈥檚 table鈥 is the set with the large platters of food, and the fine wine to match the fine china. At the 鈥渒ids鈥 table鈥 are plastic plates that won鈥檛 break, no table clothes that could be stained, and no food platters 鈥 the plates of food will be served to the children by a parent in pre-approved samplings that the adult chooses. Does this sound like the difference between the adult worship vs. kids worship: one gets the better equipment and musicians while we assume the kids are content with student musicians. Adult mission trips push the limits of opportunities while kids are often ignored for true missional experiences. Even our language of 鈥渂ig church鈥 gives away the 鈥渟econd-class status鈥 with which we classify the children and youth ministries. The larger the church, the more professional the youth ministry becomes鈥 the more segregated youth are from the church. The result is tragically youth are 鈥済uests鈥 in church, and hear the message 鈥渄on鈥檛 mess it up鈥.
Evil is present in the world. It was seen in the face of Usama bin Laden. It is also seen in things like murder, child abuse, terrorism, and natural disasters. Many Christians and non-Christians don't understand why evil is present in the world. Here's why.
I am now in my second year as a faculty member at 色中色论坛鈥檚 Talbot School of Theology. Prior to this, I鈥檝e spent the last 16 years of my life doing primarily two things: 1) attending three different universities, and; 2) working for local churches in a variety of capacities. You would think that after that amount of time invested in both theological higher education and church service, I would have learned quite a bit about the local church. Yet, this is anything but the case and not because the curriculum of my seminary lacked adequate focus on ecclesiology. Rather, teaching at a Christian university has opened up an amazing new curriculum for me and afforded me a unique and fresh vista from which to view the Church and learn from one of her most precious treasures 鈥 young people 鈥 and in this case, undergraduate students. I would like to share some of the greatest lessons this new curriculum has taught me as I seek to teach undergraduates.
Two months ago I raised a concern about a problem some churches struggle with in seeing limited impact of their teaching ministries in the lives of those who participate. I talked about some ways this problem has tended to be addressed, and my own conviction that there is a need for a better model or approach to our teaching if we hope to see real growth occur. Last month I introduced the basic ideas of 鈥渞ight-handed鈥 teaching and discussed the first half of the model. This month I want to continue and complete my discussion of the model and then begin looking at how it works together.
I have noticed the same principals that I am trying to teaching my son to be a better ballplayer are really the same fundamentals that help me coach students to be tools in God鈥檚 hands.
Over the next several months, I will be addressing the problem of the shallow impact of many teaching ministries in our churches and ways that we might 鈥淭each Deeper鈥 for greater openness to God鈥檚 transforming work. In this second blog I share the first half of a proposal for how to understand the goals of our teaching to more naturally help those we teach both understand and begin to respond to God鈥檚 Word in ways that can lead to lasting change.
One of the greatest compliments I ever received was from a student who rose to speak at a 鈥渢hank you鈥 celebration when I left my first church. I had been involved in youth ministry at this church for 14 years, the last ten as the youth pastor. I had begun to recognize the benefits of developing a comprehensive mentoring program for the youth ministry and invested many hours in the lives of a few young men. All five of these men are currently serving in full time ministry today, most as youth pastors. This particular student, James, was one of those five I poured myself into during the last few years at that church. As many people stood to say nice things to my family and I, this young man silenced the room when he simply said, 鈥淵ou are my Paul and I am your Timothy!鈥 And with that he sat down. The emotion I had been trying to control burst forth at that moment and I realized I was finished. I had completed the task God had called me to at that church. What a compliment that student paid me; on my worst days, I think about that moment and smile. Mentoring may be a 鈥渂uzz-word鈥 in the business world but the practice of developing another person for specific purposes of skill development or leadership (Smith, p. 95) has been around since the beginning of civilization, evident throughout Scripture 鈥 especially in the lives of Paul and Timothy.
Ideas are not neutral and irrelevant. They are constructs of language that can have helpful or hurtful cooresponding effects. All ideas are not equally valid and are not necessarily even true... but, true or not, ideas can have powerful effects and great care should be taken in our handling of them.
Purity begets personal power. This personal power comes from integrity. Integrity creates inner strength, which manifests itself in strong character. This 'character' increasingly produces unmitigated power in the life of the person possessing it-- and such a person is fueled by nothing other than pure conviction.
Edvard Munch's ultimate work was his expressionist series The Frieze of Life. In that series Munch sought to illustrate some of the most fundamental themes of the human experience: life, love, death, melancholy, and fear.
I have found it rather easy over the years to convince our Talbot students of the value of expository preaching. The challenge comes when our students leave the classroom and find themselves ministering to church folks who live in a sound-bite culture, and who have a strong affinity for topical sermons that 鈥渟cratch 鈥榚m where they itch.鈥
The church I grew up in is no more. It was small when I was a child; my youth group was 5 teenagers 鈥 2 of which was my sister and I鈥 slim pickens for potential dates. And now the church is a shell of what it was 鈥 a few older people I knew from childhood, systematically opening the doors each Sunday for the 鈥渇aithful鈥 who still come. So what happened? Sinful revolt? Apathetic attendees? No, the community鈥檚 culture changed and the church failed to reach out to the new language speakers. So a church closes its doors because it can鈥檛 speak the language of the new culture.
Last week I posted a piece in which I encouraged each of us to actually pray when we pray. Since then my thoughts about prayer have moved in another direction, particularly as it relates to the training of our children. I am becoming increasingly convinced that one of the most significant ways we convey spiritual truth to our children is through our prayers. I believe that when we pray with our children, our children learn about our relationship with the Lord and what we believe about God. Let鈥檚 look at three things we teach our children when they listen to us pray.
A sage once said that "Truth-telling is an act of violence." Regarding violence, anyone who has ever been victimized and that has suffered the resultant trauma knows its resonant results. It is like the proverbial pebble which causes a disproportionate effect-- rows of ripples that circumnavigate far from the point of impact, long after the rock has settled in the silt below.
Fear can be rational or irrational. That said, there's a 'sense' in which it doesn't always matter whether one's fear is rational or not. That's because even if a particular fear happens to be irrational, that doesn't necessarily make it any less troubling. In fact, irrationality doesn't "negate" fear in the least-- and, in some cases, it can even breed terror.
Over the next several months, I will be addressing the problem of the shallow impact of many teaching ministries in our churches and ways that we might 鈥淭each Deeper鈥 for greater openness to God鈥檚 transforming work. In this first blog I pose some questions about why some of our teaching ministries seem to bear limited fruit and how we might better approach our teaching ministries.